Thai Bar Girl: First Night - Sex Stories

Thai Bar Girl: First Night

Editor's Note: Over the next little while I am going to share some stories told to me by a girl I met in 2017 at a bar in Koh Pha-ngan, an island in the Gulf of Thailand just north of Koh Samui. Koh Pha-ngan is famous for its Full Moon Party with attracts upwards of 20,000 party-goers, sometimes more, every month. I met her in a bar on the outskirts of Thongsala, persuaded her to leave the bar and travel Thailand with me from Surat Thani to Hua Hin and on to Chiang Mai. In that time, I got her to share some of her stories. These are her stories, and my understanding of them. I remain in touch with her to this day.

Tell me about your first customer.

I had my first customer on my very first night in the bar.

He came into the bar with his drunk wife in tow. The man kept glancing at me. He would smile at me and I would smile back, but at the time I knew almost no English and I was very shy -- scared, really, this being my first night in the bar - so I didn't venture over to their table. After about an hour, the two of them left. I didn't think anything of it, but an hour later he returned alone and made straight for me.

He was a tall, strong, handsome man. He said his name was Paul, from Canada. I had heard of Canada, but I didn't really know where it was. All I really knew was that he seemed to like me, and that he seemed nice. We sat together, had a few drinks and played silly bar games.

Having spent most of my life in Phetchabun, I knew just a few words of English, so when he wanted to talk, we fumbled around with Google Translate. He asked me how long I had been working at the bar and I told him that this was my first night, that I hadn't had sex since I split up with my husband several years ago. He asked me if I had ever been with a white man. The truth was that I had only been with two men in my entire life, my husband and my first boyfriend. I was doing my best to answer his questions, but to him, I was fresh off the farm. He got up, paid the bar fine, took me by the hand and led me away. From talking with the other girls, I knew I was supposed to discuss price, but being new to the game, I didn't know when to bring this up, and knowing almost no English, I didn't know how... so I just went along, fearful but also excited at the prospect of what was about to happen, and hoping for the best.

He led me to a small motel not far from the bar. The room was basic, but better -- cleaner - than the one at the back of the bar where girls and customers went 'short time'. Once we were alone in the room, he picked me up in his arms, laid me on the bed and began kissing me. I hadn't been kissed in a long time. It felt strangely intoxicating. Here I was, a small Thai woman freshly arrived from rural Thailand, letting myself be embraced by a man I had just met, and not just any man but by a handsome and powerfully built 'falang'. Soon enough his hands began to wander. Through the material of my shirt, he fondled my tits, gently squeezing ...